IN THIS LESSON

Slow and Steady: Approaching Your Cat

You’ve either spotted your cat yourself or a neighbor has reported seeing them. So—what’s next?

🐾 Step 1: Communicate with the Person Who Spotted Your Cat

If a neighbor sees your cat, ask them not to attempt a capture unless absolutely necessary. If you believe your cat is friendly and would allow them to safely pick it up, you can authorize it—but only if you cannot get there quickly yourself.

If the cat begins to leave, tell them not to chase it. Chasing will only frighten the cat and potentially drive it farther away. Instead, ask them to calmly watch where it goes so you can track its location. If possible, set up a feeding station and a camera at that spot, and ask the property owner to keep you updated.

🐾 Step 2: When You See Your Cat

When you arrive and spot your cat:

  • Stop immediately. Do not run toward the cat. Sudden movement can startle and drive them away again.

  • Relax your body posture and begin softly speaking to your cat using its name.

  • Stay calm and still—let your presence feel safe and familiar.

If your cat begins approaching you:

  • Remain still.

  • Gently encourage them with your voice.

  • Avoid sudden movements—stay grounded and patient.

If your cat doesn’t approach:

  • Slowly move toward them, continuing to use their name.

  • Try offering favorite treats or food to entice them closer.

  • Observe your cat’s body language closely and adjust your approach accordingly. You know your cat best.

🐾 Step 3: Gaining Control

If you’re able to get close, and your cat is calm, gently pick them up.

  • Don’t be discouraged if they run off—you now know they are alive and can return to that location.

  • Set up a feeding station and review the next section on how to recover a cat using a humane trap if needed.

Tip: Consider bringing a pillowcase to act as a temporary carrier. It’s easier to manage than a bulky carrier and may feel less threatening to your cat. Once secured, get them to a safe, enclosed location immediately, like your car or home.

⏰ Final Reminder

Patience is your greatest tool. Let your cat set the pace. Take things slowly and calmly—this gives you the best chance of a safe reunion.